Bullying
Written by Ashton Barlowe
We all have heard and been taught about bullying throughout our lives. Most of us have been exposed, whether it's being personally bullied or witnessing others facing it. Some may even join in and participate in bullying others, feeling they need to to fit in or be “cool”. The National Center for Educational Statistics states that one of every five students report being bullied. Students are targeted by people connecting with bias of race, immigration status, sexual orientation, religion, gender identity or size. People who are seen as weak, depressed, less popular, and annoying are also targeted by peers. The best way to eliminate this is prevention and being informed about problems people face, including the effects of facing bullying.
October is National Bullying Prevention Month. During this month, we as Cox Mill High School students must come together to fight against this hurtful behavior and prevent it from happening to our peers. One thing everyone can do is encourage each other. It does not take more than a few seconds to compliment a person you see is down or congratulate someone for their accomplishments. We must turn away from comparing ourselves and being jealous, for it brings negativity towards every individual in the situation. Instead of being envious of someone’s skills or accomplishments, support them and maybe ask for help and look up to them. Realize your own worth and remember you have so much to offer, even if it is different from the norm.
Another way to prevent bullying is to stand against it. If you see something say something. I know that is something we have been taught since elementary school, but it is something that will play a role in your entire life. Saying something can dramatically change another person and maybe even save a life. If you are a bystander, intervene in the action and speak up. Do not let fear of being the next person targeted stop you. In reality, the bully being shut down by you will take away their pride of being “strong”. Your courage and support for the bullied will shine through and make a difference where it needs to be made.
Remember, sometimes your worst bully is yourself. Do not tear down yourself or others. Inspire to shine a light onto others and make your community and school have a more positive, accepting atmosphere.